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My 17 yo son died after taking one methadone one night. He went to sleep and never woke up. Please help me make everyone you know aware of the ...
Wake up. Hug tree.
Quick breakfast of Wheaties w/ banana and unborn fetuses, stem cells spread on toast.
Get dressed in hemp suit.
Miscellaneous worship of false idols.
Drive to methadone clinic in hybrid car; 30% electric, 70% Bible furnace.
Receive methadone. Sell for pot.
Catch up on a little reading: Torah, Koran, Book of Mormon, other books not The Bible.
Stop on way to welfare office to drown puppies.
Pickup welfare check.
Cash check.
Buy more pot.
Miscellaneous Sodomy.
Light lunch of sushi and stem cell pie, plus cappuccino, at upscale coffee shop.
Stop at nearest cemetery to bleach flags on veterans' graves.
Miscellaneous coveting.
Steal babies, throw them from bridge.
Bomb a church.
Meeting with Jews for instructions on what news stories to run today.
Formal dinner/fundraiser of virgin Christian sacrifice. Guest speakers Michael Moore, Al Franken and Charles Darwin.
Smoke cigars lit by a burning pictures of Jesus
Infiltrate the school system to attract impressionable young student to the homosexual lifestyle.
Miscellaneous taking the Lord's name in vain.
Smoke pot.
Giggle for about twenty minutes.
Order pizza with extra cheese and stem cells.
Pay pizza man in food stamps.
Watch Real Time with Bill Maher.
Bedtime snack of nachos with three kind of cheese and peppers. No stem cells, watching weight.
Miscellaneous dishonor of mother and father.
Early bedtime, need rest for tomorrow's All-Day Sodomy Fest.
lmao,that is so true!
I would like some honest opinions on what others think of a personal situation.
I have a 8 year old daughter who was born out of wedlock to a very long engagement I had with a looser. He was abusive and also had several kids with other women I found out about and decided to leave, once I was gone a month later found out I was pregnant.
I have been with my husband for 7 years and he treats her as his own and considers her blood. She is a typical spoiled daddys girl.
The father who is blood we will call him (b)
(B) called on mothers day and said he was back in town. He is out of state prison for major dealing of cocaine, and marajuana (sorry if spelled worng)
He says he wants to get to see his daughter. I explained as nicely as I could that he hasnt seen her ever and well only paid one support payment in 2001. He signed a paper that if I dropped the support he would leave us alone and allow her to be adopted at anytime unti lshe is 18 as long as I dont ask him to pay support and or medical coverage.
We drew up the paper and had it noterized in 2001 and he has not contacted me until this mothers day I still havae the paper..
So now since mothers day he would call and ask questions about her, I would be as polite as possibble and answer and tell him to get his act together and then we will see. then ask him to stop calling. He is also Bi-Polar and has mood swings.One day I was at walmart with my child and he was there, I already explained to my child that she had another father who mommy wasnt with, she is very very smart and explaiend that her dad frank is her dad and no one else is. I introduced them and she said YOUR NOT MY DAD and well he snapped a pic on his phone. well i figured at least he can have that. he has never had private time alone with her and only ran into us one time thats it. I did tell my child that if she ever wants to see him she can. Today he called and I didnt feel like chatting about nothing since I really have nothing to say to him. My daughter seen I was upset and said to hang up the phone and I dont need to talk to a mudd head.(i have no clue what a mudd head is also lol) I always make sure I never say negative things about him to her as someday he may change and well Its not my place to make her mind up. Its her decision. He insisted I was making her hate him and I explained that she has a dad and wants no part in this now. maybe when she is older who knows. Im not making up her mind for her. He said im brainwashing her and then He freaked out and said he will take me to court and take her so far away from me I wont find her. He has kidnapping charges that were from another child, and she ended up dropping them since the kid was returned. He also has recently been arrested again and is on parole. He is a major drug user and I feel bad since he has a problem. He has no job and no where to live. He stays sometimes with one woman he dates off and on and she is addicted to methadone.
A mutual friend told me that he has been snapping pictures of her on his camera phone and also got a hold of some pictures and photo shopped himself in them. I think that is sick that he would do that personally.
But here is my question:
based on a criminal background and no real attempts legally to visit her or pay childsupport in 8 years since birth in 2001, his abuse charges not only from me but from his mothers of his other 8 children (yes my daughter makes 9), the recent arrests and drug charges that he has had since 2001 and things like that.
I know I really shouldnt worry but its not nice when someone says they are gonna take your kid from you, it doesnt set easily in my stomach.
I myself have no criminal records and or problems. I have spoke to him and returned two calls recently when he was out of prison( but he said to me he was in rehab, which was also a lie he told me)
I have arthritis and fibromyalgia and manage my pain and am on medications to control any issues that those conditions cause.
I never had any phone calls to child protection services or bad mommy reports made on me or my household.
I have great friends and neighbors who will testify to the fact that Im qualified and able to continue great care.
Is this what he wants is me to worry? if thats so its working.
I live in Pennsylvania. i know some things I've read state that some states are all about the dad getting his rights. My husband wants to adopt her but due to my college bills and new business opening funds are a bit tight. but should I retain a lawyer now, or just dismiss all this garbage he is feeding me?
I hope no one is as harsh on me as the other questions Ive read, just figured to get some advice from someone who dont know me.
I hope this gives enough of a background on the whole issue.
My husband has provided medical coverage for her since birth and also him and I support her in every way shape and form. So there is no medical assistance, or goverment assistance.
***Thank you to the responses Ive recieved. I know I typed a whole lot but I wanted to be as detailed as possibble to assure that everyone knew the whole story*** I apperciate everyones views and thoughts. My headache is slowly vanishing while reading responses...THANK YOU SO MUCH!
Thank You samantha. I hired a certified child psychologist and we went thru several sessions to explain to her the best way about father a and father b.
She is very adimate that she has only one daddy, DAD _A.
But I clearly understand that maybe in a few years there will be a time when she will want a relationship with him. And thats why I refuse to say anything negative about him. Plus its not right and I wouldnt want him saying negative about me. I know that because he has problems with bi=polar and drug addiction that that makes him no less of a father and i clearly stated that I dont hold that against him, but I clearly wanted to state the facts of his background and mine. But everyone deserves the right to see their child. I would simply prefer that he is clean and sober and out of trouble before he gets into her life. It would be nothing but hurt for her if he visited then was sent to prision again for 3 years or something like that.
But thank you and Iapperciate your comment
So you are seeking to terminate his parental rights? That is a legal matter and a notarized statement alone will not accomplish that, his record and history suggest he is troubled and unsettled but that does not make him less of a father in the eyes of the law. You need to take the matter to family court and get peace of mind for yourself and the child. They may not immediately grant you sole custody but may grant him supervised visits or such and require child support payments.
It sounds though like you are trying to be a good mom and protect your daughter. The fact is though that while her daddy (the one who provides love, support, help etc is A) her father is B and he has a right to get to know the child and she has a right to get to know him. Right now she is very young- too young to make an informed decision- I am not saying that you should just have him traipse in disrupt your family but until you deal with this legally he will and he will have grounds for a grouse against you (he has already started accusing you of brainwashing).
A criminal background, mental health and being a philanderer do not automatically mean he has no parental rights- the courts may grant him supervised visits and may look badly at your case if you restrict his access to her without getting the go-ahead from them.
Maybe the child support and responsibilities will make him assess his motivation and sign custodial rights over. On another note the child has the right to know who her father is- in as safe a manner as possible, eventually she will be able to see him for who he is and will appreciate the stability of ther parents who provide emotional and practical support. Talk with her and explain daddy A and father B in simple terms, it will help with her confusion and help her cope.
Hope this helps.
1st we were arguing and she left with my then1 yr old girl,went to a neighbors that we barely knew and just left my girl with them.When i found my daughter the neighbors said she told them she wouldn't be gone long but for them not to give her to me.That was 8pm sat night she showed up sun at 2pm with the story that 1 of our friends that was pregnant went into labor and the babies daddy need a ride to the hospital in the next town but the only person that had a car was this guy we both knew but was way to drunk to drive.The babies daddy offered her 50 bux to take him and the owner of the car said he had no problem as long as he rode up front to keep an eye on her driving,since we were both she had taken a few nerve pills earlier.She said that she slept in a chair in the waiting room that night and all 4 agrred to the same story!A few weeks later,a guy that was infatuated with my fianceapproached me & told me he had feelings for her & that i should treat her better.I told him to mind his business & i would pray that god would put someone like her in his life.Now i already had 1 assault & battery charge pending or that would have been my answer.So after a few weeks of someone hanging up when i answered the phone but when she answered she'd say you have the wrong number.I'm no genius but i figured it was him but she insisted she wanted us to remail a family since we'd been together 3 yrs.But were both recovering drug addicts that go to a methadone clinic that costs 10 bux a person a day and were staying in a hotel room due to legal reasons.So i was getting up at 5 am,going to work&signing in,it's 1st come basis,then going to get my methadone & back to work waiting to hopefully get a job that day so i could pay for our room plus our methadone.1 day i didn't get to go out so we had no money for our room or methadone.At the clinic they will detox you in 3 days for not paying which in return leaves you terribly sick.So here i was sicker than a dog the 4th day when neither 1 of us was supposed to still be going to the clinic but all of a sudden the owner of the hotel(old pervert)found her a job so she could make enough to pay for the room at least.I thought something was up so when they left I gave them a minute then went to the clinic & there she was walking out.So i pulled beside her & asked what was going on & she said she was getting info on na meetings,lol.So when she got home from work she finally admitted that he was paying for her to go to dose but wouldn't pat for me too,And that she was just doing it so she wouldn't be sick & able to work.Later in the week she didn't get to go out to work so we had no money to pay for thr room & the owner offered to take something for trade so we left.But the only other place to stay was at the same place where this idiot had a crush on my fiance.I wasn't worried about it because she insured me i didn't have 2 be but 1 night after an argument she dissappeared again & when she returned she said she went to a girlfriends place who in return lied for her.Later in the week the guy confronted me with messages she'd left on his voice mail,pictures of the 2 together along with him holding my daughter,he informed me they had sex more than once in my bed while i was at work with my daughter present in the same room.After confronting her with all this evidence she moved in with him partly because we could no longer afford our hotel room but partly because she wanted 2 see if the grass was greener.well,3 days later i was jailed on a previous assault charge & low and behold 2 days later here come the guy that she cheated on me with!He strolled up 2 me like we were best friends and 2 minutes later i had him on the ground taking out all of my aggression.The cops came in and put him in a different block but he was released a few days later.come to find out the night he came to jail he physically abused my fiance & threw a telephone which missed her and hit my 1 yr old.So she learned the grass ain't always greener.Since i was release from jail we got our own apt,i work a fulltime job and have been for the last 16 months.My problem is that i still trult love her & want us to be a family more than anything but anytime we argue or the issue of trust comes up i say i forgive her but truthfully i havn't and don't know how to!In her defense she was under the influence of nerve pills which i know 1st hand will cause you to black out and do things you normally wouldn't do or don';t remember doing but she has been clean for over a year and has worked really hard on proving to me that she wants us to be a family.I just need help getting over this.I'm currently seeing a shrink but it's not helping & the medicine the try to put me on is the same that helped cause the problems.I know this is more of a story than question but i felt people should know the whole story before giving me an answer.please help me save my family!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I read all your story and you've had a rough life.. I know its hard but seeking to forgive is the right way to approach. I am glad you both are staying clean, and feel so bad for your son. Think about what you do, because that child should be a priority. They are a gift from God and you should protect them and make his life good. I am sure you are aware that his first year wasn't all that great, luckily for you he won't rememeber all the drama from his young life, its up to you to show him how a real man behaves. If you love your wife/fiance and your son, you will dig deep inside and forgive her for you. So that you can move past all that bull%$#@. Make a new commitment everyday to stay clean and live a new life. You cannot move forward while looking through the rear view mirror. You make the decision of what kind of life you will make for you and your family everyday.
It's the Liberals' agenda for today, Let's look and see what a day is like for the Liberals of America...
Liberal Agenda for August 11, 2006
Wake up. Hug tree.
Quick breakfast of Wheaties w/ banana and unborn fetuses, stem cells spread on toast.
Get dressed in hemp suit.
Miscellaneous worship of false idols.
Drive to methadone clinic in hybrid car; 30% electric, 70% Bible furnace.
Receive methadone. Sell for pot.
Catch up on a little reading: Torah, Koran, Book of Mormon, other books not The Bible.
Stop on way to welfare office to drown puppies.
Pickup welfare check.
Cash check.
Buy more pot.
Miscellaneous Sodomy.
Light lunch of sushi and stem cell pie, plus cappuccino, at upscale coffee shop.
Stop at nearest cemetery to bleach flags on veterans' graves.
Miscellaneous coveting.
Steal babies, throw them from bridge.
Bomb a church.
Meeting with Jews for instructions on what news stories to run today.
Formal dinner/fundraiser of virgin Christian sacrifice. Guest speakers Michael Moore, Al Franken, Satan, and Bizarro Ann Coulter.
Smoke cigars lit by a burning pictures of Jesus
Infiltrate the school system to attract impressionable young student to the homosexual lifestyle.
Miscellaneous taking the Lord's name in vain.
Smoke pot.
Giggle for about twenty minutes.
Order pizza with extra cheese and stem cells.
Pay pizza man in food stamps.
Watch Real Time with Bill Maher.
Bedtime snack of nachos with three kind of cheese and peppers. No stem cells, watching weight.
Miscellaneous dishonor of mother and father.
Early bedtime, need rest for tomorrow's All-Day Sodomy Fest.
I disagree with alot of this.....but I like the thought process......and I am sure there will be many people cursing you, and you will know they are the Libs.....who believe in tolerance and free speech.....when it is them speaking, not when anyone that disagrees speaks
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// May 4th, 2009 // Dirty Celeb Gossip
In tomorrows episode of WastedCelebrity.com, Eminem talks Vicodin Ambien Valium Addiction and a Methadone Overdose that landed him in the hospital in 1995.
From the article at WastedCelebrity.com, the latest Celebrity Drug and Alcohol Addiction News and Gossip Blog:
Following his first stint in rehab in 2005, the rapper, 36, tells VIBE he nearly overdosed after an acquaintance gave him unidentified blue pills, which a doctor later told him were actually methadone. “My doctor told me the amount of methadone I’d taken was equivalent to shooting up four bags of heroin,” Eminem says, noting that had he known, “I probably wouldn’t have taken it. But as bad as I was back then, I can’t even say 100 percent for sure.”
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